fix regression in alignment of dirent structs produced by readdir

fix regression in alignment of dirent structs produced by readdir

commit 32482f61da7650ff10741bd5aedd66bbc3ea165b reduced the number of
int members before the dirent buf from 4 to 3, thereby misaligning it
mod sizeof(off_t), producing invalid accesses on any arch where
alignof(off_t)==sizeof(off_t).

rather than re-adding wasted padding, reorder the struct to meet the
requirement and add a comment and static assertion to prevent this
from getting broken again.