update netinet/in.h to match the current kernel uapi

update netinet/in.h to match the current kernel uapi

from linux/in.h and linux/in6.h uapi headers the following
missing socket options were added:

IP_NODEFRAG - used with customized ipv4 headers
IPV6_RECVPATHMTU - for ipv6 path mtu
IPV6_PATHMTU - for ipv6 path mtu
IPV6_DONTFRAG - for ipv6 path mtu
IPV6_ADDR_PREFERENCES - RFC5014 Source Address Selection
IPV6_MINHOPCOUNT - RFC5082 Generalized TTL Security Mechanism
IPV6_ORIGDSTADDR - used by tproxy
IPV6_RECVORIGDSTADDR - used by tproxy
IPV6_TRANSPARENT - used by tproxy
IPV6_UNICAST_IF - ipv6 version of IP_UNICAST_IF

and socket option values:

IP_PMTUDISC_OMIT - value for IP_MTU_DISCOVER option, new in linux 3.14
IPV6_PMTUDISC_OMIT - same for IPV6_MTU_DISCOVER
IPV6_PMTUDISC_INTERFACE - ipv6 version of IP_PMTUDISC_INTERFACE
IPV6_PREFER_* - flags for IPV6_ADDR_PREFERENCES

not added: ipv6 flow info and flow label related definitions.
(it's unclear if libc should define these and namespace polluting
type name is involved so they are not provided for now)