openssl, wolfssl: match mbedTLS ciphersuite list

openssl, wolfssl: match mbedTLS ciphersuite list

The sender domain has a DMARC Reject/Quarantine policy which disallows
sending mailing list messages using the original "From" header.

To mitigate this problem, the original message has been wrapped
automatically by the mailing list software.
Use the same ciphersuite list as mbedTLS.
wolfssl was not honoring setting the minimum protocol with
SSL_CTX_set_options, so we must use TLSv1_2_server_method.

Signed-off-by: Eneas U de Queiroz <cote2004-github@yahoo.com>