Set cipher IV as octet string and pointer from providers

Set cipher IV as octet string and pointer from providers

OSSL_CIPHER_PARAM_IV can be accessed both as an octet string and as
an octet pointer (for routines like EVP_CIPHER_CTX_iv() that are
in a nebulous undocumented-and-might-go-away-eventually state),
the latter for when there is need to modify the actual value in
the provider.

Make sure that we consistently try to set it as both the string and pointer
forms (not just octet string) and only fail if neither version succeeds.  The
generic cipher get_ctx_params routine was already doing so, but the
AES-variant-, GCM-, and CCM-specific ones were not.

Reviewed-by: Richard Levitte <levitte@openssl.org>
(Merged from https://github.com/openssl/openssl/pull/12039)