ContentCAO: Fix broken attachments on join (#8701)

ContentCAO: Fix broken attachments on join (#8701)

What happened:
1) Object data is received. Client begins to read the data
2) Client initializes all its children (gob_cmd_update_infant)
3) Children try to attach to parent (yet not added)
4) Parent initializes, is added to the environment

And somewhere in between, Irrlicht wrecks up the attachments due to the missing matrix node.

The solution here is to:
1) Use the same structure as ServerActiveObject
2) Attach all children after the parent is really initialized