Merge in two patches from Dave Cinege:

Merge in two patches from Dave Cinege:
    the first is a cleanup of tar --exclude
    the second changes mount so mtab works more as it should, and
    also allows mount to use the traditional short form (i.e.
    'mount / -o remount,rw' now works.

While inside tar, I changed it to use getopt...
 -Erik