Farming: Change wheat into # shaped plant

Farming: Change wheat into # shaped plant

This changes the farming API such that any nodedef with paramtype2
and place_param2 are passed through to all the plant stages of the
farming plant.

This allows plants to use an alternative mesh for the plantlike
drawtype, and provide a bit of graphical variation in plants.

We enable this for wheat, using place_param2 = 3, which is the '#'
shaped plant mesh. If you would actually be able to give yourself
this plant in creative or through /give, you would also get the
same '#' shape.