ubi tools: ubiupdatevol supports "-" input and actually respects -s SIZE

ubi tools: ubiupdatevol supports "-" input and actually respects -s SIZE

Decided to not make any flash applets NOEXEC.
Minor robustifications here and there. Better error messages. Save on strings:

function                                             old     new   delta
ubi_tools_main                                      1235    1288     +53
ubi_get_volid_by_name                                125     133      +8
ubirename_main                                       198     204      +6
get_num_from_file                                     90      94      +4
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(add/remove: 0/0 grow/shrink: 4/0 up/down: 71/0)               Total: 71 bytes
   text	   data	    bss	    dec	    hex	filename
 915696	    485	   6880	 923061	  e15b5	busybox_old
 915670	    485	   6880	 923035	  e159b	busybox_unstripped

Signed-off-by: Denys Vlasenko <vda.linux@googlemail.com>