fsync,sync: make them similar

fsync,sync: make them similar

sync: add O_NOCTTY
fsync: drop O_NOATIME, add O_NONBLOCK, set exitcode to 1 if fsync() fails,
    update --help message to be similar to sync.
both: reformat code to minimize "diff -u sync.c fsync.c":
    in particular, they use same open() flags now

function                                             old     new   delta
fsync_main                                           126     130      +4
packed_usage                                       33316   33317      +1
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Signed-off-by: Denys Vlasenko <vda.linux@googlemail.com>